Who among us can have it all in New York City? In the 1990s and 2000s, the answer to that question vis-à-vis “Sex and the City,” was: four white women. Sure, Carrie’s apartment wasn’t a dream penthouse and she stored her sweaters in the oven, but she shopped until she dropped and she certainly wasn’t sharing her living space with her gal pals unless they were coming over for martinis. The original four had careers that were taking off, family money and connections, invitation